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boy trouble
Posted By krazy3k on 2010-03-19 11:14
Dear james,
using yuor techniques i have attracted the best mate ever. i love him so much and he's everything i ever wanted. except for two things.there was nothing on my list about the two things because i didnt know that they would irritate me
!. he smokes too much
2. he's always late and complains about time
please advise me on what to do
and thank you very much for giving me the perfect tools to create a perfect life.
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Posted By Yemi Ogunbase on 2010-03-21 00:02
I would try visualizing and focusing on the result that you want. You don't want him to smoke, and you want him to value your time.
I would picture the two of you spending time together, talking, laughing, etc, but imagine it without cigarettes. Focus on how healthy you both feel, and how good he smells since he doesn't smoke. Do the same thing, focus on how exciting your relationship is, now that he is more cognizant of the time of others.
In addition to that, everytime he is taking part in what you've visualized/focused on, mention it to him. Mention how great he smells, or how you love that he thought so much of you to show up on time. Something along those lines.
Posted By krazy3k on 2010-03-22 18:29
thank you. that really helps. thank you very much.
pat
Posted By pat on 2010-05-10 00:58
you need to find out why smoking bothers you as smoking is your problem not his
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