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Wow! I was so happy to see that things have turned around for you! I also admire you, that you are taking the steps to a much happier life. You are right we have to find what makes us happy, and not live our lives for others. Funny I can give advice so easy, but for me to do it myself is another thing. I want so badly to know what the right thing to do is, but am afraid of the unknown...Life is passing by so quickly, and I just don't want to wake up one day to find out that I missed out. I do know that I have missed out on so much already, by not being the person that I want to be, and being what my husband has molded me to be. I do know that one day there will be some sort of sign, and I will know what to do, so until then I just hope that I can stay strong. I am taking small steps to being who I really am, and of course my husband doesn't like the changes, I think he is seeing that I have more confidence in myself, and this makes him nervous. But I am also feeling "if" he doesn't like the changes in the "Real Me", maybe we have grown in different directions. I am also finding that we really don't have much in common either now that our kids are grown. I guess this is not uncommon for couples to find this out, especially for as many years as we've been together. Good Luck on where your life leads you, you deserve to be happy, we all do. May we both find the happiness from within and enjoy what time we have left on this earth. Take care!
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